Hi, I'm Jill...

Since 2002 I've been a dating and relationship coach and professional matchmaker. I've helped countless women going through significant life changes, or guiding them in finding the relationship and commitment they seek. As such, I owned and operated Rhodes Harvey Introductions from 2002-2021, a bespoke matchmaking and coaching service. In 2021 when the pandemic took hold, I decided to turn my focus on coaching. Achieving a Dip.Couns and EQ-i certification, member International Association of Coaches, International Association Professional Relationship Coaches in 2013 and selected as one of the TOP 10 Dating coaches in the UK for the over 40's in 2015 and appearing in THE TIMES magazine and on BBC radio I wanted to put my knowledge to good use.

I hope my training, skills and two decades of experience will benefit all the women who choose to engage with me. For many women re-establishing some emotional balance when life throws a curveball is crucial. Equally I offer full-on date and relationship coaching to help navigate the intricacies of establishing the qualities of genuine compatible partners. Finding love at 50, or any age can be tricky, but over 50 it can be a daunting prospect but, I am here to make your journey a little less daunting and a lot more successful.
How coaching can help you
Coaching helps you discover more about yourself, to see new perspectives and challenges automatic thought and behavior patterns that may have become second nature. It helps in gaining emotional clarity and direction, crucial for positive change. It also assists you in setting realistic milestones, focusing on gradual progress instead of seeking perfection. Remember no one, or any relationship is perfect. My personalized approach will explore different aspects of your life, including family, friendships, past relationships and any emotional obstacles that may have hindered you from achieving more satisfaction from your life, dating and relationships.

If You Find Yourself

Post Divorce, Widowed

Navigating the aftermath of divorce, whether by choice or a natural mutual disconnect, can be a very disorientating and life-changing. Similarly, the loss of a partner brings its own set of emotional difficulties.

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Seeking a Relationship

For single women over 50, the dating landscape has changed significantly over the past two decades, presenting new challenges, how women are seen at a certain age to a more casual relationship approach.

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At a Crossroads in Life

Going through any emotional crossroads whatever it may be leading you to unsettling and overwhelming feelings, a non-judgemental listening ear can offer both solutions and a new perspective.

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