Dating Coaching
Beyond the Chemistry in Long Term Relationships
Dating Coaching
Beyond the Chemistry in Long Term Relationships
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Beyond the Chemistry in Long Term Relationships
The pursuit of a meaningful, committed relationship and finding a partner on the same trajectory path is like playing the lottery, especially with our modern throw away dating landscape and the growth of casual intimacy. Often we find ourselves drawn to the same familiar types, making the same predictable choices or attracting the same types. If this is you or you feel you need some new perspectives, I can help...My approach to dating coaching is fundamentally learning about you, your background, dating and relationship experiences, good and bad in an effort to see where you need help, or break any ingrained patterns and behaviour, by introducing new strategies to help you move beyond a box ticking template of ideals, so you build a relationship on the solid foundations of what truly fosters compatibility and longevity.
- Many of us fall into the trap of rigid preferences. We might have a very specific template: a certain height, a particular dress size, a defined career path. While superficial commonalities can feel comfortable initially, experience and extensive research consistently reveal that these surface-level criteria rarely translate into lasting relationships. True compatibility isn’t about ticking boxes; it’s about aligning on deeper, more fundamental levels.
- At the core of my coaching lies the five core elements used within relationship psychology to establish the most compatible pairings, this is crucial when building stable, compatible relationships. These aren't trendy dating fads; they are the foundational pillars that support long-term commitment, often leading to marriage. A similar socio-economic background, core values, education, financial lifestyle and most importantly the same relationship goal. When you consciously engage these elements in your selection process, you increase genuine synergy, a connection that goes far beyond initial chemistry. Without these core elements even the most heady beginning essentially has a sell by date.
- As we mature, the journey to finding “LOVE” can become more complex. By the time we reach our fifties and beyond, it’s common to carry some emotional baggage or hold firmly established ideas about relationships. These can stem from past disappointments, toxic relationship or even from early childhood where our attachment styles are developed. These early patterns continue through life and influence how we connect with others romantically, shaping our expectations, our behaviors, and whom we are drawn to.
- Dating and relationship coaching becomes invaluable for many scenarios, and my job is to equip you with the necessary skills, techniques, boundary setting and targeted questions to help you navigate these complexities and move closer to your relationship goals. However, the effectiveness of this guidance hinges on a crucial prerequisite: your willingness to engage with an open mind and an open heart. Without this willingness, you will inevitably default to old, familiar patterns, perpetuating the same outcomes.
- Prime example, hiring a matchmaker to find you a potential partner. Many clients, understandably desiring control and believing they are the best judge, end up inadvertently undermining the very process they’ve invested in. They expect external help to simply present numbers, while retaining their existing, often unsuccessful, selection criteria. In such situations, the matchmaker’s expertise becomes redundant; they are reduced to merely compiling a list of people, while the client continues to operate within their established framework.
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